A sweet rom-com which is not so much of a rom-com - that subtly yet sharply shines a light on deep-rooted patriarchal norms, fragile male egos, and cultural differences between regions especially between traditionally patriarchal states and progressive ones like West Bengal, entire mindset of that wonderful state often makes patriarchs uncomfortable!
The film tackles topics still considered taboo in many households: female desire, the double standards in judging men versus women, and the persistent belief that a man can get away with anything simply because he's a man, while a woman’s character is constantly scrutinized. These themes are explored with nuance, though the storytelling occasionally feels scattered, jumping too quickly from one thought or scene to another.
Many have compared it to Rocky Aur Rani Ki Prem Kahani, and while there are shades of that film in this, I personally found this one more grounded and moving. It doesn’t rely on color, glamor, bling, or big-budget spectacle - but still manages to land softly and meaningfully in your heart.
Madhavan, though older than his Tanu Weds Manu days, convincingly plays a 42-year-old Sanskrit professor. However, the chemistry between him and Fatima felt a bit fizzled or perhaps just too forced. I couldn't help but wonder how someone like Vidya Balan or Dia Mirza might’ve brought more depth and connection to the role - maybe even making it a nostalgic reunion.
That said, the film challenges many age-old beliefs and silent privileges. It may make some viewers uncomfortable - and rightly so. The most powerful moment, for me, wasn’t from Madhavan or Fatima, but from Ayesha Raza (Kusum Bhabhi), whose dialogue with her husband just before the climax is a mirror to the silent suffering of countless Indian homemakers/ home bound entrepreneurs who feel trapped in their lives. That scene alone is worth the watch...
Some will swallow this film like a bitter pill - others will be grateful it was made. Modern cinema is here to stay, and it's ready to stir conversations and question outdated mindsets.
My rating: 3.5/5.
An extra 0.5 just for the literary elegance and a couple of songs!
Even if the film isn’t époustouflant (French for breathtaking or amazing - a word Fatima uses in the film), it’s definitely worth your weekend watch!
(No spoilers shared in this review—feel free to watch with fresh perspective!)
While I won't have opportunity to view this film in the US (or nor do I understand Hindi), it was interesting to hear your thoughts and think about the cultural differences.
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