Whatever we talk about often gets absorbed by our kids’ sponge-like brains. I’m most of times unknowingly chatting about weight, diet, exercise, or some neck or foot sprain and naturally, that’s what my daughter catches on to. She knows that’s one of my frequent topics.
Today morning, feeling a bit displeased with myself, I asked her,
“Zaara, do you think I’ve gained weight in the last couple of weeks?”
She gave me a slow scan tip to toe and went, “Hmmmm…”😅😂
With my best sad puppy face, I sighed, “Okay, okay! I know, I know! Holidays and all that festive eating didn’t help me.”
Without missing a beat, she said, “It’s okay, Ma. In science we learned about animal adaptations, right? This little bit of fat you gained is just like a polar bear’s blubber. Even I gained some!”
Amused and curious, I asked, “Really? What do you mean?”
She grinned, “It’s a protective layer of fat that keeps you warm in the cold winter ❄️😂 and gives warmth to your young one - that’s me!” Then she wrapped me in a big bear hug 🥹💞
“Wow,” I laughed. “That’s an interesting perspective!”
She nodded confidently, “Ya, Ma! You do so much. By summer, like by March, you’ll be all nimble and sharp again, like a fox! Maybe an arctic fox!”
In total awe, I tried to give her a kiss, but she dodged my “kiss attack” and ran off as usual! 😄
Honestly, kids are the best critics and the most loving ones too. Their feedback may sound at times frank or funny, but it’s filled with warmth, honesty, and pure affection. I felt so loved in that moment and felt like the most beautiful woman in the world! ❤️
It’s the holiday season in India now starting with Dussehra, followed by Diwali 🪔 tomorrow, and soon the festive cheer of Christmas. With all these celebrations (and endless delicacies!), it’s hard not to indulge. 🙈💕
But as my daughter said - a little “blubber” is fine! With some hard work and self-care, we’ll all be nimble foxes again soon. 🦊
Wishing everyone a Happy Diwali and a joyful festive season! 🥳
May you receive all that’s best for you - health, happiness, and love. 💫
