tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post4311734004444962809..comments2024-03-27T13:33:37.513+05:30Comments on The Pensive: If you are draped you wont be raped eh !?Afshan Shaikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-32169403959433808962013-01-19T01:04:24.138+05:302013-01-19T01:04:24.138+05:30A thought provoking write. Amongst all reasons th...A thought provoking write. Amongst all reasons there's one major factor as to why humans do what they do and that is: what gives them pleasure and what gives them pain. A small child wouldn't go to school if he/she knows that the teacher will punish for not doing the homework. So, the fear andd pain holds back the kid from going to school. Similarly, if it is known that death is the punishment for such crimes without delay, perhaps any person will think a thousand times before committing a crime. Now more than a month has passed and years too will pass and I'm not sure if those criminals will get punished.<br />Fayaz Pashahttp://www.muslimweddingflight.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-52788591659957116442013-01-15T13:26:02.249+05:302013-01-15T13:26:02.249+05:30The saddest part is that even after all this prote...The saddest part is that even after all this protests, we've had many a incident of women being mistreated. I'm not sure about how much all of this is going to make a difference. We would only be able to make a impact, when we are ready to acknowledge the fact that the girl child/woman has the same potential as that of a boy/man and should be cherished and respected. With the terribly reversing sex ratio in almost the whole of the country, I wonder how much a girl child is valued in our country. Until that happens, incidents such as these would continue. Jeevanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14805862105396943161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-36967364323322551532013-01-04T17:52:25.157+05:302013-01-04T17:52:25.157+05:30@amit : Only thing we can do is to pray that not a...@amit : Only thing we can do is to pray that not a surge of crimes occur mean while<br /><br />@Ninad : THanks for readding and acknowledging. We can educate but few r too thick to be educated and hence they resort to pouncing on u. Its better not to educate them<br /><br />Any way thank uAfshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-30792567419258444802013-01-04T17:50:48.790+05:302013-01-04T17:50:48.790+05:30@Noopur : Thanks for visiting and acknowledging th...@Noopur : Thanks for visiting and acknowledging the post . Yep every womans thoughts r reflected on each blog post lately<br /><b> I wish all stay united atleast </b>Afshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-45823379736497409302013-01-04T17:48:42.535+05:302013-01-04T17:48:42.535+05:30@priya : Thats quite a commpliment.
Let me read th...@priya : Thats quite a commpliment.<br />Let me read the post and am sure world would be a better place with ppl who try to bring a change and who voice it atleast like u me and many more<br /><b>Thanks Priya</b> for visitng my blog Keep readingAfshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-76615404147928430332013-01-04T14:56:03.535+05:302013-01-04T14:56:03.535+05:30Hi Afshan.... just to let you know some people do ...Hi Afshan.... just to let you know some people do get inspired by filmi dialogues... http://liferocks-priya.blogspot.in/2013/01/my-thoughts-as-humanas-woman.html<br /><br />Tc girl, with more women like you am sure there world if it even ends will end as a better place, best wishes.priyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09354132301370738714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-39284354438507433882012-12-22T15:57:29.009+05:302012-12-22T15:57:29.009+05:30After reading Ghata's blog and arjun dsp's...After reading Ghata's blog and arjun dsp's blog...I land here on your site...Can't agree more...<br /><br />Peoples mentality has to be changed. All we can do as educated people is ensure our friens n relatives are safe.Ninadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18125528169015735621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-2695966598236394802012-12-22T13:35:39.114+05:302012-12-22T13:35:39.114+05:30You absolutely match from my thinking... Really go...You absolutely match from my thinking... Really good one!!<br /><br />Noopur<br />http://apparitionofmine.blogspot.in/Noopurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09659666226774376374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-11249685768003283202012-12-22T10:15:17.702+05:302012-12-22T10:15:17.702+05:30It is not just one thing. we have to change a whol...It is not just one thing. we have to change a whole lot of things to change the situation. Unfortunately, it will take time and meanwhile more of such cases will come to light. I hope people wake up and realize that this can happen to them.amithttp://mashedmusings.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-30301255719796586282012-12-21T10:28:21.844+05:302012-12-21T10:28:21.844+05:30@animesh shah : Thanks for acknowledging the post....@animesh shah : Thanks for acknowledging the post.<br />HOPE EVERY ONE raise their voiceAfshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-63041150885768681392012-12-21T10:27:46.121+05:302012-12-21T10:27:46.121+05:30@jazz: ya only such happenings make me sad as worl...@jazz: ya only such happenings make me sad as world is not ending !Afshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-13406195208470564002012-12-21T04:40:12.208+05:302012-12-21T04:40:12.208+05:30its the time we stop being just mere spectators of...its the time we stop being just mere spectators of crime,its the time to be the change...very well written post..<br /><br />http://yuvaindianwriter.blogspot.in/2012/12/delhiplease-stop-being-raped.htmlAnimesh Shahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12843713441668969349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-80495557324304810642012-12-21T02:59:13.887+05:302012-12-21T02:59:13.887+05:30How unfortunate Afshan. You have said it all, I ha...How unfortunate Afshan. You have said it all, I have nothing more to add. <br /><br />:(Jazzhttp://journaloframbles.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-26075796490639815982012-12-20T22:56:46.547+05:302012-12-20T22:56:46.547+05:30@Irfanuddin : Yep . I am ready to voice this in ev...@Irfanuddin : Yep . I am ready to voice this in every possible way , every where and do what I can atleast this time!Afshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-64941467246081821522012-12-20T22:55:42.409+05:302012-12-20T22:55:42.409+05:30@Desi Traveller : Yep totally agree. THis all come...@Desi Traveller : Yep totally agree. THis all comes with the wrong brought up kinship and friendship where friends discuss kya item hai, kya maal hai uske paas , wo meri ye Teri.<br />For once can atleast few men teach the rest to stop objectifying GIRLS!!!!<br /><br /><br />TO hell with this mentality where men can get away doing any thing.... Sad and fed upAfshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-71701461717963581972012-12-20T20:33:05.395+05:302012-12-20T20:33:05.395+05:30@Vishnu S: Yep If every one raise their voice for ...@Vishnu S: Yep If every one raise their voice for this to happen. May be just may be they will die!!<br />*Fingers crossed*Afshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-91780006137103716332012-12-20T20:32:09.104+05:302012-12-20T20:32:09.104+05:30@Ghata : I am not sure if Pen is mightier than swo...@Ghata : I am not sure if Pen is mightier than sword but if penning down all this can lead to the death of criminals I will celebrate that dayAfshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-40522910749519030382012-12-20T20:31:23.425+05:302012-12-20T20:31:23.425+05:30@UmaShankar : yep True . Its not the matter of get...@UmaShankar : yep True . Its not the matter of getting draped. Its bull tht if U r well dressed U R SPARED<br />None is spared by the monsters....<br /><br />Its just high time<br />SOME THING SHOULD happen nw.. some severe response rather than a 2-6 month jail which is a jokeAfshan Shaikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254121368798290377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-74502910801969018292012-12-20T20:18:33.353+05:302012-12-20T20:18:33.353+05:30can very well feel the fire there....i just wish t...can very well feel the fire there....i just wish that this fire continues among us this time, unless the victim gets justice....unlike earlier when ppl used to forget everything after couple of days n weeks.....<br /><br />lets hope against all odds...Irfanuddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931968343851910523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-64062616485669403122012-12-20T20:02:22.977+05:302012-12-20T20:02:22.977+05:30Instead of calling daughters to find if they are o...Instead of calling daughters to find if they are ok moms should be calling there sons if they are teasing some body?. This whole concept that she wore revealing clothes so was raped is sick. Every mother should daily ask there sons if they misbehaved with a girl today. The problem is anything done by boy is considered ok while the girl is blamed..I am sick of such people.Desi Travelerhttp://desitraveler.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-32895908993200385902012-12-20T19:34:20.403+05:302012-12-20T19:34:20.403+05:30You have said a lot and there is hardly any place ...You have said a lot and there is hardly any place where I don't agree with you. If women are a doomed lot today in India, they will get raped even if they were to don burqas, our society's days are numbered.umashankarhttp://uspandey.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-91879166142102963092012-12-20T19:08:38.914+05:302012-12-20T19:08:38.914+05:30They should be tortured to death. Even then it wou...They should be tortured to death. Even then it wouldn't come near to the pain what the girl suffered! Vishnu Shttp://vishnus.namenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8832167646646400368.post-51154784211974627612012-12-20T15:56:31.125+05:302012-12-20T15:56:31.125+05:30Completely agree with you Afshan. Nobody knows if ...Completely agree with you Afshan. Nobody knows if hanging is an easy sentence, and if not, then what?<br /><br />Ideally, our "leaders" should lead, that's what they are there for. Let's see what happens. We can just write about it and protest. Ghatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09827871332186585302noreply@blogger.com